Lately me and my boyfriend have been sexually active, and he's been pressuring me to get on birth-control ?

Lately me and my boyfriend have been sexually active, and he's been pressuring me to get on birth-control but i don't want too! what should i do?Lately me and my boyfriend have been sexually active, and he's been pressuring me to get on birth-control ?
Get on birth control unless you want to get pregnant and ruin your life or get an STD and ruin it even more. Have him use condoms too.





Be responsible or don't have sex.Lately me and my boyfriend have been sexually active, and he's been pressuring me to get on birth-control ?
Buy baby clothes and a crib. Put your life on hold for the next 18 years. Don't plan to buy anything for yourself because there won't be enough money.





STOP HAVING SEX UNTIL YOU'VE BEEN ON BIRTH CONTROL FOR ONE MONTH.
With all my heart please do it! When you get pregnant it will be a tremendous strain on your relationship.





When the baby is born....double.
Just tell him that you dont want to.
Tell him that! there are far more side effects of going on birth control than using a condom. His reasoning is probably something like ';it feels better without one'; yeah ..that's nice, show him the possible side effects of birth control, pick one any one of them is riddled with side effects.





Also if you do decide to go this route and take birth control make it perfectly clear that he will need to be tested regardless of whether or not you are on birth control.
Birth control is good but he should not be pressuring you into something you don't want to do. And does he want you to go on birth control because he does not want you to get pregnant or because he does not want wear a condom ? If you decide to go on birth control then be aware of STD's.
say no! it's your body.





condoms are EXTREMELY effective if used properly.
Birth Control has many benefits and you wont have to worry about condoms or condoms breaking and he also probably dosent want to be pressured if he gets you pregnant. Deeply consider it.
You should just talk to him.


He probably just doesn't want a baby right now, and that could be a smart move depending the age and the situation of the both of you.


If you really don't want to go on birth control, talked to him about it, and tell him the reasons why.


Really though, birth control has a lot of great benefits, i'v been on it for 6 months, and had nothing but positive outcomes.
Are you guys using condoms? If so, continue to use them. There's no reason not to, as you can get ones that feel good for the guy and also non-latex ones for people who are allergic to latex. And of course, if you don't want to go on birth control they're the best bet for you guys.





If you're not using condoms, and he's pressuring you to start birth control, you should ask him why he's so insistent that you're the one that has to take full responsibility for contraception. With condoms, either of you can go out and buy them.
tell him NO
Sounds like he is just being responsible.
Why don't you want to? Just curious.





Tell him no, and if he has a major problem with it, break up with him. He probably just doesn't want to use condoms.
he's right, if you are sexually active, get the hell on birth control. Or stop being sexually active. Duh.